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is it bad when someone likes you too much?

i was chatting with a best friend when she told me that she could not date this guy because he liked her too much. which got me pondering,...IS it a bad thing?

initially i agreed. i know it sounds horrible, but from a girl's (and i definitely think a guy too) perspective, overtime attention is sometimes very overwhelming. when he's willing to drop anything for you, and suit your needs, without you needing to compromise much.

but i realize, it COULD work out. even if he's gaga-head-over-heels over you. you just need to be equally gaga over him (gross, but true). and yes, sometimes you need someone to set you boundaries, but if you care about him enough, you'll WANT to reciprocate the attention he gives you.

oh well. :) i've grown older i realize.